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We’ll always love you, Dolly.
The world lost a giant today — but her impact will be forever felt ...
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RIP, Dolly Parton.
The world has lost a giant today. I had written some words on Bluesky, right as I heard …

She was a generous, deeply loving, extremely original person. A fighter, a survivor. Compassionate, in a real way. Giving, in a real way. Endlessly hard-working, hilarious, talented, wise. A phenomenal singer and an all-time great songwriter. Someone whose soul shone brightly and always. That she was mortal barely ever occurred to me.
I’ve been reflecting a lot on something I heard Travis Barker say on Anderson’s Cooper grief-related podcast the other day: Live in their honor.
Live in their honor. I heard Travis Barker talk about this and I just bawled, given my reality lately (which is consumed by grief).
Contemplating someone as titanic as Dolly Parton and the improbable notion of her passing, all I can say is:
Let’s everyone who loved her — and who doesn’t love Dolly fucking Parton? — let’s everyone who did love her try to live in her honor.
I sang some of her songs at the piano this afternoon. I’ve got her albums playing. I’ll no doubt rewatch 9 to 5 soon. I’ve been watching clips and reading many gorgeous tributes online.
Especially if you’re someone who’s still slept on doing so: Listen to her music. Learn about her amazing deeds. Watch 9 to 5 (if you haven’t before). Look to her life for inspiration.
As many are reflecting, she did so many astounding acts:
Remember that if you got the Moderna Covid vaccine, you have Dolly Parton to thank, she gave the largest individual contribution toward their research to make it possible.
— Amadi Lovelace (@amaditalks.bsky.social)2026-08-25T18:06:14.531Z
BRB sobbing:
Dolly Parton on trans rights. God I loved her.
— Scott Bryan (@scottygb.bsky.social)2026-08-25T18:36:44.169Z
BRB sobbing:
This is the letter kids got at the end of Dolly’s Imagination Library. I defy you to read this and not cry.
— Joel (@itsjoels.bsky.social)2026-08-25T18:28:16.207Z
Some links:
Radiolab did a whole spinoff show on Dolly Parton some years ago, I highly recommend it:
My household’s main bit of Dolly Parton connection was this viral tweet:
oh no. what a loss, what a legend. RIP dolly parton, our only collab was brief and also you weren't aware of it, but i'll never ever forget it
— sincerely, rob dubbin (@robdubbin.bsky.social)2026-08-25T18:13:26.115Z
Which then became this profile’s lede (so surreal!):

I also did recall that this was an early and great Drunk History (I don’t even drink these days and haven’t for nearly a decade but this still make me LOL):
Dolly: We’ll always love you.
💔 ,
Sandy
p.s. What’s Helping Today: I do have to share this holy-shit-amazing thing that happened to me this morning:

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